Share Your Ideas for How People Should Date Better! Suggest Dos and Don’ts that a Man or a Woman Should Know for Before, During, and After a Date Can you think of ways in which you were not treated properly by someone you dated? Maybe the person canceled the date on you only half an …
Read Perel Lightman’s authentic and inspiring personal dating journey. Discover her incredible insight and how it helped guide her along her way.
Dear Dr. Chani, I am not writing to ask you for advice, but to vent my frustrations. As you probably know, the world of dating needs a lot of improvement. I have a daughter who is twenty-three years old and searching for her match. Over the last few years, she has found that most of …
Dear Dr. Chani, It has been quite a challenging year for my family. Even though it seems like the world has adapted to Covid-19 and become more optimistic in the face of new vaccines, my family has not moved on. The effects of quarantining and home-schooling have worn down my family dynamic to the point …
Dear Dr. Chani, I have been engaged for a few months and the wedding date is set for a few weeks from now. Things have become pretty stressful through the engagement. I am getting increasingly anxious. I am not sure if I should call off the wedding, delay it, or just go through with it. …
Feeling Unsettled and Stressed About My Engagement Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I have been leading a double life for the past five years. To the outside world, I am happily married, with an adorable little girl. Yet, in my own home, I feel that my husband and I are almost strangers. I am at the point where I feel pushed to decide if …
Can My Marriage Survive After My Husband’s Deception? Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I hope you can help me make a decision about dating that has been chasing me for years. Although it is difficult for me to imagine, I am already in my forties and have never been married. I still hope to find the right person and raise a family as soon as …
Should I Date Someone Significantly Older Than I Am? Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I am hoping that you can help me deal with some issues I am having in my second marriage. Before I explain what I am concerned about, I think it will help if I share the background of my first marriage. I suffered the tragic loss of my first husband when I …
How Can I Make My Children Happy in My Second Marriage? Part 2 Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I am hoping that you can help me deal with some issues I am having in my second marriage. Before I explain what I am concerned about, I think it will help if I share the background of my first marriage. I suffered the tragic loss of my first husband when I …
How Can I Make My Children Happy in My Second Marriage? Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I recently met a guy who I would like to date, but I am not sure how to proceed. The truth is we did not actually meet each other. I was out walking with a married friend of mine, and two guys walked by. One of them knew my friend, so he …
My Friend Refuses to Set Me Up With Someone I Want to Date Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, How can I know if the person I am dating is abusive or within the range of normal? I have been dating a woman, let’s call her Zahava, for about four months. I noticed some strange behaviors from the start, but some of her habits have become more concerning over time. One …