A few weeks ago, I published a letter expressing Josh’s resentment over the way that his in-laws allocated their money to their children. The emotionally charged issues that Josh described resonated with many people who sent me letters to offer their own perspectives to Josh.
Sometimes I feel that my wife and I are in different worlds. When my wife tells me why she is upset, I try very hard to listen to her and understand her point of view. As I listen, I also make mental notes of how she is making mistakes and remembering the story incorrectly.
Dear Dr. Chani, I am writing to you because I am impressed with the advice you have given in your column. It is very balanced and thought-out. I am interested in your take on my challenge with my in-laws. Over the last four years, I have become increasingly resentful towards my wife’s parents. They are …
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