Dear Dr. Chani, My resentment towards my husband has been snowballing for a long time. In many ways, I see him as an overgrown child. I feel so lonely in my marriage. I am not sure what to do at this point. My husband often wakes up very late in the morning. He eventually goes …
Dear Dr. Chani, I am writing this specifically in reference to your most recent column. When I read about the several instances that were shared reflecting guys’ “self-absorption” and thoughtlessness on dates, what immediately came to my mind was the idea of a “fundamental attribution error.” While not defending or excusing the guys’ behavior, I …
Response to How Can We Improve the Dating World? Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I am not writing to ask you for advice, but to vent my frustrations. As you probably know, the world of dating needs a lot of improvement. I have a daughter who is twenty-three years old and searching for her match. Over the last few years, she has found that most of …
Dear Dr. Chani, It has been quite a challenging year for my family. Even though it seems like the world has adapted to Covid-19 and become more optimistic in the face of new vaccines, my family has not moved on. The effects of quarantining and home-schooling have worn down my family dynamic to the point …
Share Your Ideas for How People Should Date Better! Suggest Dos and Don’ts that a Man or a Woman Should Know for Before, During, and After a Date Can you think of ways in which you were not treated properly by someone you dated? Maybe the person canceled the date on you only half an …
Dear Dr. Chani, I have been engaged for a few months and the wedding date is set for a few weeks from now. Things have become pretty stressful through the engagement. I am getting increasingly anxious. I am not sure if I should call off the wedding, delay it, or just go through with it. …
Feeling Unsettled and Stressed About My Engagement Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I have been leading a double life for the past five years. To the outside world, I am happily married, with an adorable little girl. Yet, in my own home, I feel that my husband and I are almost strangers. I am at the point where I feel pushed to decide if …
Can My Marriage Survive After My Husband’s Deception? Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I hope you can help me make a decision about dating that has been chasing me for years. Although it is difficult for me to imagine, I am already in my forties and have never been married. I still hope to find the right person and raise a family as soon as …
Should I Date Someone Significantly Older Than I Am? Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I am hoping that you can help me deal with some issues I am having in my second marriage. Before I explain what I am concerned about, I think it will help if I share the background of my first marriage. I suffered the tragic loss of my first husband when I …
How Can I Make My Children Happy in My Second Marriage? Part 2 Read More »
Dear Dr. Chani, I am hoping that you can help me deal with some issues I am having in my second marriage. Before I explain what I am concerned about, I think it will help if I share the background of my first marriage. I suffered the tragic loss of my first husband when I …
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